AITAH for snowing in my neighbors illegally parked car?

In Boston, winter isn’t just a season — it’s a battlefield. And this time, the weapon of choice was a snow blower. After a brutal storm dumped 20 inches of snow on his street, one homeowner found himself blocked in yet again by a neighbor’s kid who insists on parking in a clearly marked no-parking zone — right beside the end of his driveway. The plow avoided the illegally parked car, leaving his entire side buried.

Frustration had been building for months. Polite conversations had gone nowhere. So when the snow started flying, he made a decision. At first, it was accidental. Then it was absolutely intentional. By the time he finished clearing his driveway and the missed section of road, the neighbor’s car was buried deep.

AITAH for snowing in my neighbors illegally parked car?

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The problem had been ongoing long before the blizzard hit

On of my neighbors has a kid that like to park on a no parking side on my street, it just happens to be next to the end of my...

This kid leaves his car on the street and the town sucks at towing. The plow came down and to avoid the car basically missed my whole side. I have...

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When it came time to clear the snow, frustration met opportunity

Anyway, I go out to snow blow and the wind was blowing in the direction of the car so I turn my chute over to that direction. I had to...

Then he made a deliberate choice

I then said f__k it and just the the chute directed at their car at all times. I added more snow to the drivers side, right up the sidewalk, which...

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The snow piled up on the passengers side from the plow going back the other way. By the time I was done it was pretty buried.

The next morning brought consequences — and confrontation

I went out the next day on Monday to do some more clean up and the kid was trying to shovel himself out. He said something about getting snowed /...

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He asked if he could borrow the snow blower to get himself out and I said no. The mother came over later to b__ch me out threaten me with the...

I know shes not going to call them as they were parked illegally and they would probably give the kid a big fine for both the parking and being there...

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Neighborhood conflicts often escalate when small boundary violations are repeated over time. What might seem minor — parking slightly too close — can feel deeply disrespectful when it affects someone’s daily routine. Add extreme weather, and tensions multiply quickly.

In this case, the homeowner had already attempted communication. When those efforts failed, frustration likely built into resentment. Snow became the tipping point. Rather than reporting the issue formally, he chose immediate, visible consequences. While satisfying in the moment, retaliatory actions can intensify long-term hostility between neighbors.

Conflict resolution specialist Dr. Gary Chapman has noted, “Unresolved frustration rarely stays small. When people feel unheard, they often escalate their response to be seen.” That escalation doesn’t always create resolution — sometimes it just starts a neighborhood cold war.

Practically speaking, repeated illegal parking is best addressed through documentation and consistent reporting to local authorities. Cameras, non-emergency police calls, and official complaints protect homeowners without increasing personal conflict. Petty revenge might feel justified, but formal solutions usually lead to lasting change.

Check out how the community responded:

Many readers felt the snow job was justified

kiwimuz − NTA. You only placed snow where no car should be parked. The fact a car was on the no parking area is their dumb luck.

riny58 − NTA. You are the victim of chronic boundary violations regarding parking, which directly impacted your ability to exit your property during a 20-inch blizzard. You didnt *accidentally* bury...

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you deliberately used the snow removal process as necessary recourse after repeated ignored requests. The real AH is the neighbor who habitually parks illegally and impedes access.

Your next move isnt apologizing; its suggesting they invest in a 4x4 or learn how to shovel 20 inches of snow off a vehicle they should never have left there....

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2LostFlamingos − People need to learn to respect the rules. His breaking of rules caused a hardship for you. So he is the A for me.

RadarRogue − NTA. You gave him consequences for his s__tty behavior that were easily overcome, AND let him know why.

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If he doesn’t learn his lesson, have it towed next time. Some people are far too comfortable with being disrespectful of their neighbors and getting away with it.

gypsysniper9 − NTA. Serves him right.

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Others leaned into the humor — and the pettiness

Muertog − A__hole? Yes. Justified? Perhaps. Satisfying? Oh, definitely.

DayManFOTNightMan − NTA. I mean, maybe a little, but in a good way. It's peak Boston behavior, and I'd be disappointed if you hadn't buried him.

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kistner − Dude, this belongs in r/pettyrevenge not r/aitah lol. You are NTA, he parked illegally.

SunshynePower − NTA Start calling the cops every time he's illegally parked. I mean, the war has already started so I hope you have security cameras up to prevent then...

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A small group with different opinions.

MrsSnuffleupagus764 − Do you live IN the City of Boston or a surrounding town? If you're in Boston, call the non emergency number for your district every single time he...

grrrrxxff − Boston has extremely clear street etiquette, especially in winter. You know you were fully justified

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SillyTugboats − NTA. But the neighbors sure are. Sounds like you’ve been dealing with entitlement for a bit and I don’t blame you for how you handled it.

Maybe a little bit of a jerk for blowing the snow directly on the car but it was also the car that caused you to be blocked in to begin...

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Seasons71Four − You should start calling to get him tickets/towed every time he parks there. Don't wait until it's an issue

HuhWelliNever − Nta. If more assholes got a harmless life lesson like that more frequently, then maybe they wouldn’t be assholes so much of the time…it would at least reduce...

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Killjoycmdrkj − If this doesnt teach him a lesson start throwing some nails and tacks there. Personally I would have been calling the tow company after the first week of...

Snowstorms test patience, but they also expose long-standing frustrations. This homeowner didn’t create the problem — he simply responded to it in a way that was undeniably direct. Was it petty? Absolutely. Was it understandable after repeated warnings? Many think so. Still, neighborhood grudges can last longer than winter. The question isn’t just whether he was wrong — it’s whether the short-term satisfaction is worth potential long-term tension. If someone kept blocking your driveway, would you make a formal complaint — or let the snow speak for you?

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