Finding and maintaining love is an enchanting enigma that enthralls individuals from diverse backgrounds indefinitely. In this intricate tapestry of human emotions, there is no one-size-fits-all formula for eternal love, but one constant remains – the dedication it demands. For those currently navigating the labyrinthine realms of love, the commitment required is palpable. An efficacious strategy for nurturing your relationship and enhancing its prospects of longevity is to cultivate a shared vision. A mutual aspiration can draw you closer as a couple and serve as a wellspring of resilience during adversity. As we usher in 2023, aspiring to become your own #RelationshipGoals, it’s worthwhile to contemplate these objectives with your partner.
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1 Online relationships
In today's tech-filled world, it's no wonder that online relationships are on the rise. Through social media, dating apps, and even while playing video games, people are finding fresh ways to connect with each other. What's cool about online relationships is that you can make meaningful connections no matter where you or the other person are located. This makes it a lot easier to keep up with friendships and even start romantic relationships. Online relationships are like a lifeline for busy folks or those who live far away from each other, making it much simpler to stay close.
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2 Platonic friendships
Platonic frendships which are just close friendships without any romantic stuff, have been around forever, but they're getting even more popular nowadays. These are the kind of friendships where two people really like hanging out and have a lot in common, but there's no romantic or flirty stuff going on. There's also something called "sugar friendships," where it's more about being buddies and supporting each other. In a world where dating can get pretty tricky, especially with all that online dating stuff, platonic friendships are a nice and simple way to connect with people without all the dating drama.
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3 Open relationships
An open relationship is when both partners decide it's okay not to limit their romantic or sexual connections only to each other. It's like saying, "We can be with other people too, but we're still together." This kind of relationship works well for couples who want to try new things and meet new people without the full-on commitment of a typical exclusive relationship. In open relationships, communication is super important; you need to talk about what's okay and what's not, set clear boundaries, respect each other's feelings, and trust each other completely. It's all about being honest and respectful while exploring a different way of being together.
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4 Demisexual relationships
Ademisexual relationship is when two people come together romantically, and at least one of them identifies as demisexual. Demisexuality is a part of asexuality, and it means that someone only feels sexual attraction after forming a deep emotional connection with someone else. So, for a demisexual person to feel a strong physical attraction to another person, they need to have a strong emotional bond first. This often means taking a while, maybe even months or years of building a deep friendship before the relationship turns into something sexual. It's all about that emotional connection being the key to their physical attraction.
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5 Polyamorous relationships
Apolyamorous relationship is a unique kind of romantic connection where one person or a group of people engage in relationships with multiple individuals simultaneously. Unlike monogamy, where two people exclusively share romantic and sexual bonds, polyamory allows for a broader range of connections. In polyamorous relationships, you can have both casual and deeply committed relationships with multiple partners at the same time. It's about embracing the idea that love and intimacy can be shared with more than just one person, making it a diverse and open approach to romantic connections.
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6 Have a date night routine
The National Marriage Project says that going on date nights can make your relationship better and reduce the chance of divorce. The researchers found that if you spend just one evening a week together, it can really help. It's like a magic ingredient for a happier and longer-lasting relationship. So, setting aside special time for each other, like going on a date, can make your relationship strong and better.
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7 Feel each other’s pain
A study from the American Psychological Association discovered that women feel happier when men can tell when they're feeling upset. And you know what? Maybe men feel the same way too.In any relationship, it's important for both partners to be good at recognizing when the other person is feeling down. In my own relationship, I can usually tell when my partner is upset from a mile away, and it helps us both feel better. So, paying attention to each other's feelings is a great way to keep a relationship strong and happy.
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8 Aromantic relationships
Aromantic relationships are for people who don't feel romantic love. Some of them might still have sexual feelings, but they're not into romantic stuff. These relationships can look like close friendships or strong partnerships without the romantic part. Nowadays, as people are more open and accepting of different sexual orientations and gender identities, aromantic relationships are becoming more known and accepted. It's all about recognizing that not everyone wants or needs romantic love, and that's perfectly okay.
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9 sex magic
As we enter this season of reflection and look ahead to the coming year, I encourage you to explore the practice of sex magic. Those who believe in it say that the most powerful moments for casting spells, manifesting dreams, setting intentions, or tapping into inner strength occur during or right before orgasm. Whether you're sharing this experience with a partner or embracing it solo, the key to a successful ritual is being clear about your desires and channeling all your physical and emotional energy toward them. Many proponents claim you can experience immediate benefits from this practice. It's all about connecting your body and mind to manifest your desires.
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10 Be positive to each other
It's normal for people to sometimes disagree or have different ways of living in a relationship, but it shouldn't happen all the time. If it does, it can harm the relationship and make one partner feel unimportant.The main way to talk to each other should be with kindness and positivity. When you're annoyed with your partner, try to remember what you love about them.If you both care about each other, you'll work on getting better together as time goes on. But if things don't improve, don't be afraid to consider getting help from a professional to figure out the problem more deeply.
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11 Show love with your partner’s love language
You might have noticed that your partner expresses and receives love differently from you. This is called "love language," and it's a really important thing in making your relationship happy. If you haven't already, try a quiz with your partner to figure out if your love languages involve doing helpful things, saying nice words, spending time together, giving gifts, or physical affection. Once you know each other's love languages, you can make an effort to show love in those ways more often. It helps you be more aware of how your partner feels loved and keeps your relationship strong.
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12 Make sex a priority
You and your partner might have been really passionate in the bedroom when you first got together, but as time goes on, especially if you live together, sex can sometimes take a backseat. Life's responsibilities can get in the way of those intense and passionate lovemaking sessions that often happen at the start of a relationship. However, it's important to remember that sex can be a vital and deeply intimate aspect of a relationship, and it should be given the attention and care it deserves.